How To Attract Men
Do you ever go out and wonder why the men around you aren't talking to you and paying you more attention? You may not realize it, but there are some simple things you can do that will get their attention and make you more successful with the guys. Here are some easy tips on how to attract men.
Have A Drink In Your Hand
First of all, this looks more natural than standing there without anything to drink. That just looks like you're waiting for a guy to buy you a drink, and men don't like to feel used like that. It's better to look independent, and already have your own drink, even if its just water. They can start up a conversation, and then buy you another if things are going well.
Use Eye Contact
You can use this tip even from across the room. If you can make eye contact with a guy, this gets their attention. Hold the contact for a while, don't immediately look away as if you're embarrassed. If you tilt your head down just a touch and look up at him, it is an even more powerful signal. When he approaches to talk, keep up that eye contact.
Keep The Conversation Positive
You want him to see you as a happy person who's fun to be around, so make sure to keep up that tone in your conversation. Don't get into negative talk about politics, don't complain about the weather, and don't make sarcastic comments about other people. Instead, keep it light, and talk about things you like - music, movies, or vacations
There's nothing that makes any person instantly more attractive than a genuine smile. It can light up your face, and make you look like that happy fun person you want to be. And when you flash that smile at him, it's sure to give him a nice warm feeling that you really like him. That makes him feel more confident, and he's more likely to come over and talk to you.
Don't Ask What He Does
A guy wants you to like him for who he is, not what he does. That applies whether he's a ditch digger or a brain surgeon. The more successful a man is, the more likely he is to think that women are after his money, too. That brain surgeon may be afraid of being used by some gold digger. Of course you do want to learn about the man and what he does eventually. Just don't bring this into the conversation too soon. See how the two of you hit it off first, before asking about his job.
Don't Stick With Your Clique
If you go out with a group of your eight best friends, that makes it very tough for a man to approach you at a bar. A large group of women is intimidating to even a confident guy, or they may feel like they're interrupting some special occasion. Try to go out with just one or two friends, instead or take a few chances to break away from the group. That makes you much more approachable, and you'll have better results.