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Top 10 Things Men Want From You

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Men have other needs and wants, too. Here are the top 10 things men want from you.
Jessica Kohl on June 27, 2014 - 8:54 pm in Dating Tips, Relationship Advice

You know that men want sex. That much is obvious, but that's not all they want. Men have other needs and wants, too. If you give him some of these other things too (and it's not hard), then your relationship could be happier than ever. Here are the top 10 things men want from you. 

1. Listen To Him

Everybody in the world, men and women, want to be heard and recognized as a person. The key is to actively listen to him, understanding what he's saying, and learning a little bit more about him. Empathetic listening shows that you truly care about him.

2. Stay In Shape

You want him to stay in shape and healthy, right? Well, he wants the same thing from you. When you make the effort to work out, eat healthy, and stay in shape it makes you more attractive to him. It also makes it more likely he will do the same.

3. Sexy Lingerie

This can be quite a turn on for men. He may be into you even without the this, but when you have a sexy set of lacy lingerie, it will turn things up a notch. Go ahead and splurge on a nice set. He's sure to appreciate it, though he may not want to see you in it for long.

4. Stripping For Him

Men are highly visual, and there are few things they'd like to see more than you putting on a private strip show for them. Every once in awhile, if you put on some music and do a little strip tease act, he will react enthusiastically.

5. Give Him A Gift

Any excuse will do - Christmas, birthday, anniversary, or the second Friday in the month. Just try to think of a gift that he'll really love, not one that would be good for him. Giving him the latest tech gadget he wants is very cool, but a new set of weights might not go over so well.

6. Playing A Part

A lot of guys would like to add some spice to their love life by indulging in a little role playing.  When you broach the subject, ask him what part he'd like you to play. He may want to go shopping with you for the costume.

 7. Positive Words

A lot of guys would like to add some spice to their love life by indulging in a little role playing.  When you broach the subject, ask him what part he'd like you to play. He may want to go shopping with you for the costume.

8. Experimenting In Bed

Don't be afraid to try new things. You may be shy about it, but try to stay open to new positions, or using sex toys. Communication, trust, and love make this work, and he's sure to enjoy it.

9. Home Cooking

You know what they say about the way to a man's heart, and there's certainly some truth to this. Surprise him now and then by making him a home cooked meal. He'll be impressed with your talents, and happy that you made the effort.

10. Be Vocal In Bed

He wants to know that what he's doing is really making you excited, so go ahead and tell him. When you let him know that you love what he's doing, that gets him more excited, too. He'll feel more confident, and he'll also know more about how to make you ecstatic.

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