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What Do Women Want? The Top 10 Things Women Want In A Man

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Women seem to have different criteria in what they look for in a man. To help straighten this out, here are the top 10 things women want from you.
Jessica Kohl on May 20, 2014 - 9:48 pm in Dating Tips, Relationship Advice

Guys are fairly simple. They want a woman who is attractive, sexy, nice and interesting.  Women seem to have different criteria in what they look for in a man. To help straighten this out, here are the top 10 things women want from you.

1. Confidence

You've probably seen guys who don't seem to have much in the way of looks or career success, who nevertheless have a way with the women. This is what confidence can do. When you're comfortable with yourself, and confident of what you have to offer, women love it.

 

2. Intelligence

Most women value intelligence in a man. That doesn't mean you need to be Einstein, but in general, if you are smart and well-informed, women like that. If you don't know much about a topic, don't fake it. Try asking questions, or leading the conversation to a new topic.

3. Good Looks

Women care about the way a man looks, almost as much as men care about how women look. Try to keep yourself in shape and pay attention to grooming. Ditch the frayed shorts and put on some clean, attractive clothes. She will be happier to be around you when you're looking good.

 

4. Independence

Women don't want a role where they have to take care of a man. They want to be your lover, not your mother, and they like it when you can take care of yourself. When you can do your laundry, cook your own dinner, and pay your bills, that's a good sign.

5. Positive Outlook

When you're with somebody who has an optimistic, positive outlook on life, it makes the time you spend together much more pleasant. Women don't want to be with a guy who is overly negative, pessimistic, or cynical. That's a downer, and it's just not fun.

6. Good Communication

Women like a man who can carry on a real conversation with them. That means expressing your feelings, and also listening attentively to them when they talk about their thoughts, hopes, and desires. Good communication shows that you care about her. It can bring the two of you closer, and that's what she wants.

7. A Sense Of Humor

Women love it when a guy can make them laugh. They're not necessarily looking for the class clown, or somebody who's the life of every party, but they want somebody who can make them laugh at times. If you can laugh at yourself too, that's a plus.

8. Passion

Women want to see that you're passionate - both about them and about other things. If you're passionate about saving endangered tigers, it shows that you're a caring person with a heart of gold. When you're passionate about her, it shows her that she's desired, and leads to a lot of fun.

9. Social Skills

The stereotype is that women love the strong, silent type, but that's not often true in real life.  In fact, women usually love it when a guy is socially adept enough to function well with her friends, at a family event, or at her office Christmas party. 

10. Ambition

Ambitious guys make women melt, at least up to a point. It's not just about the money that goes along with career success. It's about the fact that you set goals and achieve them which is an attractive quality. Just don't let your work focus take over to the extent that you ignore the woman in your life. 

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